Grief and Loss

What Sicilians Can Teach Western Culture About Grief

What Sicilians Can Teach Western Culture About Grief

In many parts of the world, grief rituals and cultural approaches to mourning shape how people heal after loss. For Sicilians, grief is not something to be hidden or overcome. It is witnessed, shared, spoken aloud, and woven into community life. Grief is understood as a human experience that deserves expression, support, and ritual.

In contrast, much of American and Western culture tends to value emotional restraint, productivity, and a quick return to “normal.” Grief is often expected to be managed quietly, efficiently, and on a socially acceptable timeline. This push to “move on” often leaves the bereaved feeling isolated and unsupported .

By looking at how Sicilian culture models grief, we can begin to imagine healthier, more compassionate ways of responding to loss.

Cozying Up to Grief: Finding Gentle Comfort in Winter

Cozying Up to Grief: Finding Gentle Comfort in Winter

Whether or not you are experiencing a particular sorrow or struggle, the remainder of winter can be a reflective time; many animals hibernate in the cold months, and we humans also reach for warmth and comfort. Slowing down to engage in what nurtures and sustains us can help us through the darkest times. One way to do this is to pay attention to what’s happening in our bodies, taking a moment to notice our breathing, what we feel physically and emotionally, and what our bodies are telling us we need. Would a walk be helpful? A warm bath? Time with friends, a book, or a favorite movie? Do we need a cup of tea or something warm to eat? Taking the time to nurture ourselves can help ease some of the intense feelings we have. 

The Healing Power of Kindness: Why Helping Others Helps You Too

The Healing Power of Kindness: Why Helping Others Helps You Too

November can feel like the start of a marathon. As soon as October ends, we officially head into The Holidays, and from Thanksgiving through New Year’s, family and social interactions abound. Family traditions, seeing relatives we haven’t been with for a while, and sharing food and conversation can be lovely, fun, and nurturing. It can also be tense, challenging, even painful. We may have challenging family relationships or feel the loss of someone who’s no longer with us.