In many parts of the world, grief rituals and cultural approaches to mourning shape how people heal after loss. For Sicilians, grief is not something to be hidden or overcome. It is witnessed, shared, spoken aloud, and woven into community life. Grief is understood as a human experience that deserves expression, support, and ritual.

In contrast, much of American and Western culture tends to value emotional restraint, productivity, and a quick return to “normal.” Grief is often expected to be managed quietly, efficiently, and on a socially acceptable timeline. This push to “move on” often leaves the bereaved feeling isolated and unsupported .

By looking at how Sicilian culture models grief, we can begin to imagine healthier, more compassionate ways of responding to loss.